Boyfriend [32M] told me I [26F] am horrible person because I accused him of not taking care of me while I had food poisoning because he went on massage

I [26F] got food poisoning while travelling with my boyfriend [32M], spent all night in the bathroom but didn't wanna wake him up because there was nothing he could do to help me.

The next day I was still in pain and felt terrible. He ordered me a soup and was working on his laptop until 4pm, I didn't want to ruin his day so I told him he could go out for a walk and I'll be fine, and asked him to get me crackers because I was starving and that was the only thing I wouldn't throw up. He gave me his laptop to watch Netflix, went out and returned after 1.5 hours, didn't get me crackers because he was only at the hotel bar.

He went out again, didn't get me crackers again because someting pissed him off on the way (he gets pissed off easily). Then he said he's under a lot of stress and needed a massage. I asked to get me crackers before he goes because I was really starving. At 7:30 he went out to massage and buy crackers but didn't bring them back to the hotel because he would be late on massage.

He came back to the hotel at midnight because he was buying cheese and wine for himself, he also stopped at some bar for a short time. He started to eat cheese and drink wine in the bed next to me which made me feel nausea, I still couldn't handle that smell. I asked him not to eat next to me because I felt like I would puke and he looked at me like I offended him by asking that. He poured another glass of wine in spite of me and told me I was nagging.

When I told him he didn't take care of me he said he can't believe how unappreciative I am and that I'm a horrible person. Then he started to mention all the other things which he thinks I did wrong.

I feel like his needs always come to the first place and mine only if his are fully satisfied and that everything is always about him. He always has high standards for me, analyses and critizeis everything I say or do and that's very exhausting.

Am I really unappreciative? I wouldn't leave him alone.

TL;DR Boyfriend told me I'm horrible person because I accused him of not taking care of me

Submitted October 01, 2018 at 07:08AM by enthusiastic_forever https://ift.tt/2y3z1uC