So my boyfriend has a friend (26F) let’s call her Emily. Emily and my boyfriend have been friends for around 10 years, where as I have only been dating my boy friend for around 6 months. I’ve heard of Emily before but I had never met her as she lives in another state. Well, Emily comes to town and my boyfriend and Emily decide to go to some bars. They both got very drunk. Now I knew Emily was going to be staying over, but I assumed she would sleep on the couch. My boyfriend has had many guests stay over at his house previously and they have all slept on the couch. I end up asking him 2 days later where Emily slept ( My gut is never wrong). He says she slept at his place, then I ask again where. He said she slept in the bed with him. I’m devastated. He thought it was no big deal. I see it as a huge red flag, he’s never slept in a bed with someone else that stayed over. He said she fell asleep on the bed as he was playing games. Then he just decided to sleep in the bed next to her. He later admitted that he was wrong and that he would never do it again.
So I’m at a lost to what to do next. I really like this guy, but I also don’t want to ignore the HUGE red flag. I want to stay with him, but I’m worried he has feelings for her. Nothing quite like some old friend that he’s pinning over to bite me in the ass a couple months from now :/
Help what do I do?
TLDR; My(24F) boyfriend (26M) slept in a bed with a female friend. What do I do?
Submitted August 03, 2021 at 11:10PM by Super_Fig_8751 https://ift.tt/3fwZl6N
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