Husband (M26) is always on his phone when I (F24) am going down on him and it makes me uncomfortable

We've been married for two years, expecting a baby in three months. I don't know the correct way to explain my situation because English is not my first language so please bear with me.

This wasn't always a problem, but it has become more and more frequent up to the point now it's like every time we have sex. But today was extra hurtful.

I love going down on him but everytime I do he'd be on his phone scrolling through facebook, texting his friends or something. I asked him before what he was looking at and he showed me his phone so I'm certain he isn't looking at other girls pictures.

Today, his phone camera flashed while I was going down on him and I'm very scared if he maybe was taking a picture..

Once we're done he'll just roll to one side and pickup his phone again to scroll.. He rarely helps me finish and thinks once he's done the sex is done.

I love him so much, he helps a lot with housework and such but this problem has been making me very troubled and I can't discuss or ask advice from anyone else because I'm Asian and talking about sex problems are taboo. I can't stand this anymore. We can't go to couples therapy because there's no such thing here.

What should I do?

TL:DR : Husband is always on his phone while I'm going down on him and sometimes during sex itself and it's making me uncomfortable and feel unappreciated.

Submitted August 23, 2021 at 06:45AM by ByuntaePeach https://ift.tt/2WbrPfz