TLDR - my bf cheated on his ex-wife and I’m completely disgusted with him.
I (37f) have been with my bf (45m) for two years. He’s divorced and coparents a child with his ex. Their relationship was always seemingly amicable, although tensions have arisen in the last year.
Last night, apropos of almost nothing, my boyfriend sits me down to confess that he had an affair starting from the time of his ex’s pregnancy and lasting for two years. He never confessed to his ex, or told another soul. He said he felt I needed to know the truth about everything, including the worst thing he’d ever done.
I’m absolutely devastated. This would have been unimaginable to me a day ago; it’s completely antithetical to the person I believed he was. A mistake is a one-off, but two years?? While she was pregnant?
I’m afraid our relationship is over, as he’s lied to me this entire time, when I’d asked pointed questions about the marriage and fidelity, etc. I also fear I’ll forever fear that he’ll cheat on me, too, when prior to yesterday, it would never have crossed my mind as a possibility.
What do I do?
Submitted August 02, 2021 at 01:33AM by Background_Gur_3125 https://ift.tt/2Vdf1Fn
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