Update to my post from 8 months ago (see below)
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/huyfxi/ive_been_avoiding_talking_to_my_bf_for_a_few/
So it's been a while, and I'm sure the 5 people who saw this back then probably forgot and/or don't care, but I figured I'd write the conclusion to this, just in case.
My boyfriend and I [M and F, 18] are good now. He confronted me on the phone not long after I made my initial post, and I broke down and told him everything that was wrong. I know I hurt him, and I still feel like shit for crying, but we talked about it. He told me he was tired of being ignored and treated secondary to every little thing, and I agreed. Every second of that phone call hurt, but I know I deserved it for being so selfish.
We're still together, and I still struggle with bouts of antisocial behavior, but we're talking through them. Phone calls no longer feel like a chore 100% of the time, and he still makes me as happy now as he did when we first started dating.
I know this is rather anticlimactic, but I remembered this post after a while and figured maybe someone was thinking about me. I appreciate those who reached and tried to help me.
TL:DR: We talked it out, and we're still together.
Submitted April 06, 2021 at 03:17PM by throwaway_talking https://ift.tt/3mofldq
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