My Gf (F24) and I (M25) broke up 2 weeks ago but still live together. We had been together for 6 years, lived together for 2. We broke up as a direct result of my emotional cheating. I did too little, too late to change my behavior and it ultimately led to our demise. This post is not about that, though. The damage is done. For the record: I did not want to break up but I totally understand that my actions warranted it.
Living together post-break up has been weird. We are both in a bit of denial. Hell, we even had sex once during the break up. We were sleeping in the same bed until I decided that we shouldn’t be. She consistently hugs me, kisses my forehead, etc. It makes me question why she went through with the break up to begin with. She sends me all kinds of mixed signals.
I’m moving out of Wednesday because I finally have time to do it with the Thanksgiving break. I need to leave if we’re actually going to become separated. She asked me tonight “can we still text each other to have check-ins?”...
I told her that if we break up and I leave, that’s the end of it for us. Definitively. At this point we’ve both said too much to our families that it would just feel weird for us to get back together. That, on top of the (justified) trust issues she has as a result of my infidelity.
Is this normal? If anyone has any feedback, or has experienced a similar situation I would love to hear about it. Has anyone had a similar situation before and gotten back together with their partner? How did it go?
TL;DR my gf and I are still living together post-break-up and she sends me mixed signals and it makes it hard for me/us to move on.
Submitted November 22, 2020 at 07:07PM by ThrowRA8975468964 https://ift.tt/3lSen8i
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