Here is some history. This is a 20 year friendship and we got way closer about 5 years ago. My friend is newly single as of two years ago and I am married and newly pregnant.
For the past couple years Jen has been telling me all about how awesome Kate is non stop, spends most of the time we get together saying how amazing she is and texting her instead of talking to me (blatantly on her phone while we’re out to eat for example).
She has consistency done similar things where she prioritizes Kate over me constantly. Only wants to do fun things with her, does the boring sh*t with me.
On my birthday Jen didn’t even buy me a drink, and for Kate’s birthday she booked an expensive birthday dinner for her ON my birthday (for the two of them to go on my birthday) while looking at me for a reaction (I didn’t give one).
When I got pregnant I was so excited and her response was “are you gonna keep it”. She’s super against children and told me that I ruined her summer by getting pregnant (she said it jokingly but I believe it). She also talked about how now our friendship will change once I have the baby.
Today she posted something on social media (her and Kate on vacation) and tagged it “RBFF” (real best friend forever). I don’t know if I should call her out, or just still giving a shit and phase her out slowly!?
She wrote me a message asking how I’m doing and I wrote back a brief one saying I’m good and looks like she’s having fun.
Do I message her saying something along the lines of “you and your real bestie have fun lol”? Or is that just immaturity speaking?
tl;dr: My best friend replaced me and is rubbing it in my face, and I’m not sure how to react.
Submitted July 18, 2020 at 06:13PM by Tall-Application5545 https://ift.tt/2OFET60
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