GF (22F) says she will break up with me if I go to Baylor but I got half my tuition paid with scholarships. How do I let her down easy?

Hey y’all! So I got into Baylor’s Biology program as a pre-med, and I am pumped because my parents are paying for my meal plan and books, and I got like 22,000 a year in scholarships! I still need loans that same amount in loans just for tuition but more scholarships are possible!

The only problem is I promised my GF we would move in with each other again, and she said if we don’t she would break up with me. She also said she would break up with me if I went to Baylor.

I don’t really want to live with her because she has a ton of junk she wants to bring like binS full of smelly purses, t-shirts, jackets, nick nacks et cetera. She has a whole 5x10 storage unit FILLED with half furniture half random stuff. She also is a little messy, leaving dishes out on the nightstand, doesn’t like to clean. The biggest problem is her dogs. She sleeps a lot, leaving her dogs to shit on the floor, and when we lived together before for about a year, she didn’t pick it up.

I told her I didn’t want to get another apartment with her for those reasons about 9 months ago, and as expected she freaked out. I told her we would get another apartment in six months if she got a job, didn’t wreck her moms carpets, and got her DL, but she still lets her dogs shit on the floor.

There are a lot of positive qualities that she has as well, to many to list here, but she’s beautiful, I can really be myself around her, and I think she’s neat! Most importantly, she was diagnosed with autism, so I don’t know how much of the negative stuff I can really blame her for.

Also, if we were to live in Waco together, it would be way harder to find an apartment.

I need to talk to her about the future, but I don’t know how. What do I say? Is it time to break up? How do I talk to her?!

Tl;dr girlfriend isn’t fun to live with (except for one way), and says she threatens to leave me if I go to my dream school. I know I probs should break up but I think she could change, and I really care about her. What should I do, and how do I break the news??

Edit: I just got done talking to her. She isn’t going to break up with me. She really wasn’t happy. She said I lead her on, and gave her false hope et certera. I was very firm in that I was going to Baylor tho. The only problem is she said she wants to have an open relationship where neither of us can have sex, but kids people and go on dates. Wtf? I told her I’d think about it, and she says if I can go to Baylor she should get something that she wants. She’s asked for it before, but I said I wasn’t comfortable with it. She said it’s a security thing, so that if I cheat she doesn’t get hurt as bad. I should just terminate it right?

Submitted July 18, 2020 at 07:41PM by james50shades https://ift.tt/32yN2RG