Ok so I’ve (20F) been dating my boyfriend (19M) for about three-ish months but have been friends for almost two years and I am starting to get concerned about how close he is with a friend of ours (19f). I trust my bf and am convinced he has no idea of her having a crush on him but sometimes they say things that make me super uncomfortable. He goes and hangs out in her room sometimes (we are in college though so I never really thought twice about that cuz rooms are the only place we can hang out really). But sometimes in big group settings this girl will just talk about how much her mom loves my boyfriend and I was feeling extra jealous tonight and scrolled through her insta and a lot of her posts are with him and the background on her computer is him and she even has a photo of them together at a party in her room with a bunch of other ones. They both always claim that they don’t have feelings for each other like that but I don’t know if I believe this girl anymore. She just always seems to talk to my bf and him only in big groups. And -sorry this is a long rant- for another example she was in a big group tonight with all of my friends and my bf also her friends and said “oh i lost my applebee’s card from my mom. If she asks anybody it’s because (my bf) and I went to applebee’s together and spent it.”. My roommate found this weird which is what prompted me to ask all yours advice. I don’t want to tell my bf that he has to change his relationship with a friend but I also don’t know if he is aware about how uncomfortable it makes me. But also if it’s not anything then I don’t want to stir the pot you know?
TL;DR! My bf(19m) and I (20f) have a close friend (19f) who I think has a crush on my bf and I don’t want him to change their relationship because of me but I am uncomfortable
Submitted March 05, 2020 at 10:52PM by BaubleScandium https://ift.tt/2IqEGQM
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