When my (25F) fiancé (28M) and I first started dating, I definitely liked him more than he liked me. He did say I love you and totally seemed to (we were seeing each other all the time, talking about moving in together, etc.) and a year later he dumped me saying he didn’t feel as strongly.
A few months later and he regretted it. It’s now 2.5 years later and things are amazing - he spent months proving to me that he had really changed and valued me and everything was insanely different.
Last night, he told me that, when he was visiting me at the same time as my best friend, he sort of expected a threesome to happen. My best friend is typically very flirty with my boyfriends, and if it gets out of control I tell her to cut it out (for instance, she spent the whole time talking about the three of us sharing a bed when I made it clear to her that she was on the couch when she originally wanted to come) but past boyfriends have been uncomfortable if anything, not turned on.
We had a huge fight when he told me that and he said I was blowing it way out of proportion. He said he never would have actually done anything unless I wanted to and that it was years ago and he’s a guy.
I feel kind of blind sighted. I ended up having a fight with my friend that weekend over this, and I thought he had my back. Instead, I learn that he was secretly thinking about getting with both of us.
I know he wasn’t fully invested in our relationship back then, but this just feels yucky. I’m having a hard time figuring out how I could even be around the two of them again. Am I overreacting? Any and all opinions wanted!
Tl:dr; some years ago, my fiancé apparently wanted to have a threesome with me and my best friend after we were solidly together. I feel like I’ve been betrayed. Am I overreacting?
Submitted March 26, 2020 at 04:13PM by lalalarouie https://ift.tt/3aq7Xra
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