Some backstory : I've always had trouble keeping a relationship with girls. I've done a lot of thinking and I might just be falling for girls that don't have enough common interests with me. I fall for girls who works in the same field as me (healtcare) instead of girls who share common interests with me. I think that's partly because my work is a huge part of my life and I absolutely love what I do, but I'm beginning to think I should not build something serious over this single common interest.
Anyways, I've been dating this girl for around 6 months and we've been official since 3 months ago.
Last night, she comes to my appartement late after work. I'm tired and currently sick, I just feel like going to bed. I have to stay up until she comes back from work because she can't unlock the front door to the appartement building.
We got into an argument over something very stupid. She literally said my Sinus Rinse technique wasn't right. I told her I was aware but preferred using it this way. She decides to block the bathroom door and is not letting me out until I use it as it was "intended". I don't really understand why she's acting like this so I tell her to stop and she won't. I try to push her back gently and she eventually lets me out, frustrated. She literally got us into an argument over fucking Sinus rinse. She went to bed and would not talk to me.
This morning I didn't feel like talking much and told her I was going to school to study. She was frustrated and started ignoring me because she felt like I didn't want to spend time with her. I told her it wasn't about that, and that I hadn't studied much in the past days and needed to make up for it today. Truthfully, I also felt like this was a toxic environment and I was getting annoyed over her immature behaviour. I needed air.
When I left, she screamed at me and when I closed the door, I heard her slam her hand against a wall and scream again.
I think I've had enough. This is just one example of stupid arguments. This isn't the first time she raises her voice or screams over me. I don't deserve to be treated as such. I would NEVER treat someone like this.
I don't know how to go about breaking up. I want to do it in person, but I feel like I don't owe her any explanation. I feel like she doesn't even deserve one. I certainly don't want to get into more arguments. Am I doing the right thing?
TL;DR : Vocally abusive GF gets into constant arguments over little things with me; Got into an argument over the intended use of fucking Sinus Rinse and I think I've had enough. I want to break up.
Submitted February 02, 2020 at 08:57AM by PCSK6 https://ift.tt/2GQ1o4g
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