My girlfriend (19f) keeps drawing gay porn of me (20m) and my best friend (20m). I told her to stop and she’s accusing me of being homophobic.

She’s into art and publishes some of her work on her social media. I regularly check out her content and give my support. Her popularity is rising and this has been giving her a lot of confidence.

Recently she’s been posting NSFW stuff on the side and it has been getting a lot of attention. A few days ago I came across a drawing she had made of me and my best friend. I will not elaborate but it was hardcore gay porn. I recognized that it was us because she’s very talented and the drawing looked realistic enough to scar me.

I told her that it’s not OK to publish this stuff.

She said that the drawings were just a “physical manifestation” of our “bromance” and that I should appreciate the “beauty” of it. I told her that I’m extremely uncomfortable with it’s graphic nature and that she never asked for my permission at any point.

She said that I’m only angry because I’m “clearly” the submissive character in the drawings and that I got my ego hurt. She said that I’m acting like a typical straight male and that my friend (who is bi) is probably a lot more open minded. I spoke with him and although he doesn’t mind he agrees that she should respect my boundaries.

We argued again today and she accused me of being homophobic. This isn’t true and it’s unfair that she’s using that term so loosely. (Am I really homophobic?). She also said that I should be more supportive and be proud that she’s getting more recognition.

I told her to stop, at the very least, posting this content online. I’m already being approached by people and asked if I’m gay. What can I do?

TL;DR My gf keeps posting gay porn of me and my best friend. This makes me extremely uncomfortable and I’m against it. She’s accusing me of being homophobic

Submitted April 06, 2021 at 10:31PM by stonmp https://ift.tt/3dKhTi8