My (25M) girlfriend (23F) broke up with me today after having a second mental breakdown in as many months. She just messaged me apologising and begging for me to come back but I don't know if I can trust her again

So we've been together for about 17 months now. Up until mid-February this year we had the perfect relationship (never any arguments, great chemistry, messaged each other 24/7 when lockdowns kept us apart, talked about kids and marriage etc). We even bought a house in December that is due to built by about July this year.

In mid Feb she had what I can only describe as a mental breakdown. She said we rushed buying a house and that she's not sure she wants to settle down. The next day she said sorry and that she didn't mean it, but since that day she's been like a zombie and just shut off completely. Instead of us talking 24/7 she'd message me maybe 3 times per day and she kept making excuses not to see me.

Fast forward to today and she had another breakdown. She broke up with me and said our relationship hasn't been the same in 6-7 months (I know this isn't true at all and it only started breaking down when she had her first breakdown).

Now just 5 hours after breaking up she sent me a long message apologising and asking for me back.

Am I being an asshole for basically thinking that I could never trust her again or feel comfortable that this won't keep happening down the road? Also the house thing is a nightmare, if we are done and sell the house now we'll be losing about £15,000!

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tl;dr: girlfriend keeps having breakdowns and saying stuff she eventually regrets. At this point do I just need to bite the bullet and say it's over or should I be sticking by her?

Submitted April 06, 2021 at 04:08PM by _Vaudeville_ https://ift.tt/31UgRKV