We've been talking for around 6 months now, easily atleast 3hours a day, with some/most days going over 5+hrs, I gave her my address ages ago so she could send me something, and she gave me her friends address so I could send something to her (she didn't want parents knowing about the LDR cause they are asian and wouldn't approve so early on).
I recently asked her for her address and she tells me she feels uncomfortable telling me (because she met someone online ages ago and told him some information about her which he was able to use to figure out stuff about her location etc.) and I understand that the previous experience was traumatic but I still feel like absolute trash about her not being able to trust me 6 months in, especially since we've told each other we love each other, making plans to meet each other, but the address is too much?
I'm not sure how to feel reddit, I just feel like weird about the entire thing and I can't seem to get past it, when I talk to her about it, she re-iterates the same event, agrees that I'm not the same as the other guy, tells me she trusts me and still doesn't feel ok with the address bit. I told her it's completely okay that she's uncomfortable and I don't need to know, but it definitely makes me feel terrible :(
TL:DR - LDR GF of 6 months doesn't feel comfortable telling me her address when we're making plans to close the distance, I feel like she doesn't trust me and it sucks
Submitted November 23, 2020 at 12:09AM by EcstaticVenom https://ift.tt/3fuQ8dV
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