Hi all,
My GF and I have been dating for a while. It has been the healthiest, most stable relationship I ever had.
My GF and her friends are part of a soccer team, this summer some new people are joining, including X, with whom my GF had a fling with before we started dating, despite the fact that X had (and still has) a GF.
My GF was not very fond of X joining the team. I told her to be kind to her and cordial, after all, they are all adults. After their first encounter at the team my GF would sometimes tell me how X was 'bothering' her, again I told her several times that she should be cordial.
Today I found out that in fact they have been talking for a while, it's not been all that innocent. It's about the tension between them, how they can only talk to each other for hours, how much they suffered from their affair that ended (before meeting me that is). My GF even pretended that I was jealous while I was the one who encouraged here to be cordial and kind. My GF also suggested to the girl to meet up but she told my GF she didn't want cause she had a GF but she felt like they would one day hook up eventually.
When I confronted my GF, she also told me how her friend, let's call her B (who is X's best friend) encouraged her to be with B, I confronted B about this, who told me no and said she would never do this. Eventually my GF admitted that B had nothing to do with this.
I am not sure what to do, I wanted to marry this person and felt so in love.
How should I react?
Tl;dr: GF emotionally cheated, what to do?
Submitted July 19, 2020 at 10:19AM by PasLagardere https://ift.tt/30sRpuR
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