Young and newly wed, together for 8 years.
I’m sure there’s blame on both side but I need to get this off my chest. Might end up one sided, sorry.
6 month into our relationship, our sex life became pretty boring. She takes medication that lowers her sex drive so it’s difficult to work on it. There’s a lack of engagement, excitement, playfulness which is what I find most attractive in a partner. To not see sex as a chore to tick off your check list.
I’ve stopped initiating. I wouldn’t say I’m dirty but I do shower less lately to have another excuse to get out of it. I do some tasks around the house until bed time. Going straight to bed as much as possible because I now dread having sex with my wife.
She’s a lazy lover, lays there. I do all the work. It’s always the same positions, I’m always on top, same time a day. The lack of connection/engagement is killing me. I have stopped mid act a handful of times because it felt like having sex with a corpse. No feedback. She does finish, that’s the only good part out of it. She comes alive.
Dreading having sex with her but having a high sex drive gives me so much anxiety.
Not sure what I’m looking for posting here. Getting it off my chest, advise or some other reason. I’ll always love my wife, find her very attractive physically, mentally and in all other spheres of our lives. We’ve talked about this on and off. Nothing changes.
tl;dr I have a high sex drive but dread having sex with my wife now due to her lack of engagement and it’s drives crazy.
Submitted July 21, 2020 at 07:04PM by Throwawayhubby2020 https://ift.tt/3jq8PRz
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