So we have been together for almost two years now and it has been great . Recently I excepted a new job that forces me to work out of state for two weeks out of every month. While I’m working I have little reception and it’s hard to find time to talk with my girlfriend . Needless to say this has been hard on our relationship but nothing that we haven’t been able to communicate through.
The other day after returning from a stint out of state I was home watching tv while my gf was drawing in the other room. She left her phone sitting on the couch next to me. I’m not usually the snooping type but since I had been home things seemed a bit off. I decide to snoop and I probably shouldn’t have, but here we are.
I was saddened to see some very long texts between her and a male coworker (29?) go on and on. I noticed the times being very late hours of the night to very early in the morning. Some texts that stuck out read:
“The best part of my day was sitting down and talking to you”
“I haven’t been this excited to come to work ever.”
As I read through the long chains of jokes, banter and personal life stories between the two I felt angry. It genuinely looked as though feeling s had developed between the two and I decided to bring it to my gfs attention. She said I was lashing out and didn’t want her to have friends.
I feel that this is a bit over the line and I am unsure of what to do. I consider this emotional cheating and am upset that she doesn’t acknowledge that. She even pointed out she thought it was ok be cause he’s married and said it would be inappropriate if he wasn’t.
What do I do?
TL;DR found intimate text message between my girlfriend and her coworker
Submitted July 24, 2020 at 06:56PM by braindeft https://ift.tt/2D9xxVy
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