How do I politely tell a male friend I don’t want to meet up with him anymore

I’m 24 and I have had a male friend Jack that I’ve known for about 6 years properly- he also knows my family as his mum and mine used to be friends

Backstory-he doesn’t tell his family he meets up with me which is partly why I think I want to stop meeting with him.

So, whenever I meet up with him, he doesn’t really bring much to convo. Always insists on paying, and always wants to go to fancy “date” themed restaurants. or to fancy bars after dinner

Once me and my bf got together I pretty much made a lot of excuses not to see Jack. I don’t feel comfortable doing these kind of things. And it’s only ever us two when we meet up. I just feel uncomfortable and I really do think he likes me. Like when I say hello he grabs my waist and kisses me on both checks. This could be a cultural thing but I’m not sure.

Everytime I suggest stuff like getting just a coffee at Starbucks and some cake he just says no he wants either a fancy Italian or TGI’s and I’m just not up for it anymore.

I’m not sure how to just say, I don’t think I wanna meet up anymore?

TLDR- I don’t want to meet up with a guy friend how do I say it

Submitted July 18, 2020 at 10:38AM by jamdonut33 https://ift.tt/3eO9bhC