my mother always teased me about my weight and shamed me whenever I ate anything. I had depression and gained 20 pounds. I became so obsessed with my weight that I became anorexic. When I met my bf I was very skinny, but weak and I hated myself.
I’ve gained weight and my bf doesn’t stop teasing me. It’s causing me to hate myself again and Ive started to get low self esteem. I’m 5’5 and now 125 pounds and he says he wants me to be skinny again. Hes always making fun of my legs and ass especially. He comments on how attractive other women are who are skinnier then me (he rarely compliments me). One day we went to a woman’s underwear store and I wanted to buy lingerie and he said I should lose weight first. He then proceeded to tell me the super skinny girl who worked there was really hot. He claims he’s just teasing and he finds me sexy, but they’re always so mean spirited. I told him that it hurts my feelings but he said “I’m not perfect if I find skinny girls attractive you can’t change that”. I’ve told him about my weight issues, but he doesn’t seem to care.
The funny thing is he’s not even in shape himself, but I never bring that up because I’m not a malicious person.
Any advice?
TLDR-My bf Hates how I’ve gained weight and it’s hurting my self esteem
Submitted March 02, 2020 at 01:09AM by Little-Celery https://ift.tt/2IaPulZ
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