I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month now; he was into me before this and asked me out, the date went really well and i feel like we’ve clicked in person ever since. In person, I feel like I can tell he’s into me and I wasn’t concerned at first.
However, recently in the past week or so, I feel like Ive started to notice something more obviously. He says he’s not a planner and will say that he wants to hang out during the weekend, but he doesn’t usually want to nail down a date or time. I like planning because then it makes me both 1) ensure that I make time for this person and 2) not feel like I’m just waiting around all day until they’re free, eating up time I would rather use more productively if they don’t come around until later anyway.
Anyways, today is the second time that I’ve found myself in the situation where he says he wants to hang out today and I ask for a time estimate and then am just left hanging for a while until he asks if I’m free. I know he doesn’t mean it disrespectfully but I just wish he’d give me a rough idea or an estimate rather than only telling me the moment he’s free...
Is this reasonable? Is there a way for us to meet each other halfway? I get that he’s not a planner but waiting makes me anxious.
tl;dr: How to bridge the gap between a planner and a non planner for dates?
Submitted February 29, 2020 at 02:54PM by whatdowordsmean22 https://ift.tt/2PDawhl
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