We’ve been friends for over a decade and she’s the one person who I feel like I can be my authentic self with so it’s breaking my heart that she’s like this.
When we’re together we always have an amazing time and ive always been an amazing friend to her, I’d do anything for her. When we’re together she’s also a good friend to me she will always offer to buy us food or pay for gas.
Half the time we make plans though she either cancels for some dumb excuse like that she’s having a fight with her boyfriend or is too tired or a lot of the time she actually just doesn’t show up and doesn’t answer her phone until maybe 4 days later when she asks me to hangout and then most the time it happens again.
Although there are short periods of time where she will actually be really good with our plans and always show up. This is fairly rare though.
About a year ago she was terrible with keeping plans, more than ever. She would either ghost or be extremely late. I ended up blocking her on most social media and didn’t talk to her for 6 months. She then broke up with her boyfriend at the time who was VERY toxic and ended up texting me for forgiveness and I took her back.
What prompted me to make this post is last week she asked me to hangout and we confirmed a time. She never showed up. I didn’t text her after that and just dropped it. She texted me again two days ago and just asked to hangout today. I said sure. She confirmed a time with me and to no surprise it’s an hour past and no sign of her.
I’m lost with what to do. I want to say something to her about this in a serious way that will actually get my point across but I just don’t know how to. That or maybe I just need to block her again. What do I do?
Update: I forgot to add that my friend still goes out with other people like her boyfriend and maybe once in awhile another one of her friends but that’s it. She’s my neighbour so I often see her and her boyfriend outside or in the car together. So it’s not that she just doesn’t want to go out at all.
TL:DR; best friend of over a decade can’t stop ghosting our plans. when shes the one who made them in the first place. What do I do?
Submitted February 19, 2021 at 07:30PM by randomname76893 https://ift.tt/3pEEMYc
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