My (25f) boyfriend (29m) broke up with me out of no where after things were seemingly going so well. Where do I go from here.

Well. It happened to me.

It's ironic because I just made a post today about how much better things have been. How he has been compromising and trying. How he just introduced me to his sister yesterday for the first time after 3 years.

We have had a hard relationship. Toxic. Weve broken up countless time but always in a fight. The last 6 months have been so good. I've been supportive and there and appreciative and I felt it was finally being reciprocated. I thought we were doing well. I thought we could make it through anything.

My (25f) boyfriend (29m) of 3 years just came home from a 2 week stay with his family in another city. I met him at the bus station when he arrived. I was so excited to see him. He took me aside before we headed to his place and told me he doesn't want to do it anymore. That he needs to work on himself and hes depressed. He says he loves me and doesn't want to hurt me but he just cant do it.

My head is spinning. I know its selfish of me, but I wanted to be there; I wanted to help, I love him. I was shocked really, I didnt see it coming. I'm so heartbroken and I dont know where to go from here. I feel I've done everything possible to make it work, I've changed and grown so much as a person because of him. And have really made an effort to heal to make it work.

I feel like I'm falling apart. I know it's still new and still fresh and that with time I'll feel better. I'm just so heartbroken I dont know what to do.

Help?

Td;lr: my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me out of no where. I feel so lost and shocked and heartbroken. Words of wisdom? Advice?

Submitted January 01, 2021 at 12:49PM by Professional-Yam601 https://ift.tt/3hz0ivb