So...Sunday night I [32] was at my oldest childs [22m] house with my other two children [17m] and [12f] and my wife [36]. Also in attendance were my cousin, his girlfriend, roommate and the roommates girlfriend. This guy has given me pause in the past with being allowed around my daughter but nothing substantial. It’s just more or less the relationship with his girlfriend that worries me and how he sometimes talks even with my daughter in the room. His gf is 18, was barely legal when they started dating, and she looks, and acts like a middle schooler. He has admitted he likes them much younger than himself. Well...Sunday was what broke me and made me want to harm him.
We were playing DnD and I caught him staring at my daughters chest. I pulled her away from me, as she was behind me, and made her go to her mother. The whole time she moved, his eyes moved with her. When his eyes became level with my head and he noticed I was watching him, he looked away but didn’t even look ashamed. So, after having spoken to my wife, both sons, and cousin...we’ve come to the consensus my daughter is not allowed near the guy. The guy is not allowed at my oldest sons house, nor will we be going to the apartment my cousin shares with the guy. My cousin is also looking for a new place. Like I said, I’ve had pause in the past...but nothing DEFINITIVE and he’s never made her feel uncomfortable as he’s never made a direct comment to her. But I still worry and don’t want my daughter put in a place where the situation may arise. We’ve never left her alone with him...I’m just wondering what else I should do or if this is enough?
TL;DR caught my cousins roommate staring at my [12] daughters chest. He looked away when he realized it but didn’t look ashamed...what do I do?
Edit: he is army, and also works as a janitor at a local grade school. I’m worried about these kids at the school, so I’m wondering what to do about this.
Submitted January 26, 2021 at 01:56PM by mxster982 https://ift.tt/3ckXPUJ
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