Hi guys, sorry if this doesn't belong here but I'm not sure where else to post!
My (f27) housemate (f29) has recently started dating a new guy (m30) a couple of weeks ago. He lives at home with his parents and so has been staying at our Place 5 or 6 nights a week. We live in a tiny cottage with a small living area, kitchen, 2 bedrooms and one bathroom.
I have been giving them space in the evenings and they have been sitting in the living area so I have been spending time in my room after saying hello etc. but I am getting cabin fever!
My country currently has a pretty tight lockdown which prevents me from going to see other friends or out to dinner etc (Not to mention he shouldn't actually be here!).
I am uncomfortable with him being here so much as I suffer from an anxiety disorder and feel like this is a violation of my 'safe space'. Obviously I don't expect my housemate never to have people over but I think the amount of time he is spending here is excessive.
Am I unreasonable by not wanting him here that often? How do I bring this subject up to her without sounding like an asshole and potentially upsetting her?
TL;DR: Housemate's new partner is staying 5/6 nights a week and I am uncomfortable with that amount of time. Am I being unreasonable? How do I bring it up?
Submitted January 08, 2021 at 08:08AM by Throwaway-147012 https://ift.tt/38qYTUC
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