Link to original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/f79bkh/my_28f_fianc%C3%A9s_30m_personal_hygiene_is/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
So I think I’ve had enough. Yesterday while I was doing his laundry I decided to see what was in a plastic bag that’s been sitting in the bedroom for a while. I quickly regretted it. There was a pair of boxers with skid marks and socks that were literally hard as stone(I don’t even want to know). I’ve seen skid marks before but they were smaller. This one was HUGE. I threw up and put all the sheets, etc. in the washing machine for 2 hours at the highest temperature. I didn’t say anything but I was visibly upset. I don’t want to sit on the couch knowing he was lying there with the stained boxers. Also yesterday it was the first time he took a shower in maybe 5 days. I want to leave him at this point but I’m giving birth to our son on a month. Are the skid marks and the other stuff a good enough reason to end our relationship? I can’t live like this anymore and I’m one step away from leaving and never coming back.
tl;dr: found skid marks on fiancé’s underwear and I consider leaving him
EDIT: Wow, this blew up! Thanks for the support! For those who are accusing me of being unintelligent because I chose to have a child with him - he wasn’t like that until I got pregnant. He has always been a slob but he had his own place before we found out I have a baby on the way and he occasionally went there so that’s probably why I hadn’t noticed just how dirty he is (I was also deeply in love). I’ve confronted him a lot of times and told him to brush his teeth/wash up etc. but I’m tired of treating him like a child at this point since he’s a grown ass man. He is NOT depressed and I know this for sure and my therapist knows him and agrees he is far from depressed. He is just comfortable being dirty which is weird because I keep our place as clean as possible and I’m far from a slob.
Submitted March 26, 2020 at 03:13AM by hannabanana94 https://ift.tt/2wsed3b
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