So, today as me (25F) and my boyfriend (28M) were driving, he suddenly goes “you’re going to judge me for this, but..... what’s your last name again?” I didn’t even know what to say. I just stared at him for a while, trying to decipher whether or not he was joking. He then continues stammering about how he “knows” what it is, he just “forgot.” Again, I’m completely silent. He then makes things worse by saying “I mean, I know your first full non-nickname name is “M————” .........it’s not. It’s M———-A. Basically along the lines of Jordan and Jordana. He forgot an entire syllable at the end. He then somehow continues to make things even worse, yet again, by saying “and your birthday is March 20th!”......... it’s April 20th. This is a man I’ve known for almost two years and have been dating for nearly a year. I honestly thought he was playing a joke on me. There’s no way someone I’ve known for this long could possibly “forget” all of these things when I know everything about him. I didn’t even say anything the rest of the car ride (like 3 minutes). Not because I was giving him the silent treatment, but because I genuinely didn’t know what to say. Luckily he was dropping me off at my place so I had time to process my thoughts on my own. Since then, he’s texted me THREE whole guesses as to what my last name is and none of them have been even remotely close. At this point, I’m not even angry. I’m just... hurt and disappointed. It wouldn’t be so bad if he had known my birthday and my first name (my first name for God’s sake), but to forget all three is just beyond me. Especially since we’re well past the “getting to know each other” stage of our relationship and have been saying I love you for the past 6 months. Any advice on how to go about all of this? Or has anyone else had anything similar happen to them?
TL;DR Boyfriend didn’t know basic information about me including my last name, full first name, or birthday, despite the fact that we’ve known each other for two years and I know all of these things about him.
Submitted February 01, 2019 at 01:00PM by annnnon8971 http://bit.ly/2Tt5TGn
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