I was just wondering if anyone else feels the same way? My friends are rather reckless and are prone to putting themselves in less than ideal situations after a long night of drinking and partying. Now don't get me wrong I enjoy going somewhere and listening to some nice music. But when I'm with my friends I kinda feel like an unpaid babysitter sometimes (and it's worse when they decide they just have to do psychedelics). And the music at the clubs they go to is kinda the worst. But my parents and I share the same interests when it comes to pretty much everything! And my parents are considerate of my time and we all plan around everyone's schedule. My friends, on the other hand, will plan something together and then invite me last minute like I'm an afterthought. Then when I meet them they'll spend the first 20 minutes spouting some elaborate story explaining why they forgot to include me until last minute (which I didn't ask for by the way). I'm going away to university soon and I'm thinking of just politely distancing myself from these people so I can hang out with my parents (and siblings) as much as possible, because I really hate missing out on time with them for people who don't really care. Can anyone give me some advice on how to approach this situation?
TL;DR my friendships are draining and I want out of them so I can hang out with family
Submitted July 16, 2019 at 04:49PM by needtoescape11 https://ift.tt/2O9n9Ci
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