So me (27 F) and my now ex-bf (24 M) met in Germany 2 and a half years ago and lived there together for 2 years. I came back to my country (Mexico) for a job opportunity on December 2021, and we had talked about moving in together in the future when either he got his German passport (he is a Kurd from Syria) or I got a new job in Germany.
Today he told me he couldn’t find a way to say this to me but he ended up saying he has to get married with a Kurdish girl (who he hasn’t met yet) that his family wants him to marry to. He hasn’t seen his family in over 10 years but still videocalls them daily. He says he loves me and always will and wants to know that I will have a good life and stuff, but I am too sad to keep in touch with him. I need people from Kurdish culture or similar to clear this up to me, if you call bs or if he is right and would be disowned by his family if he doesn’t marry her. Either way I already accepted our relationship is over, but I just need to know. I also accept advice from anyone on how to cope with being dumped for someone else for the third time (3/3 relationships in total).
TL;DR: he dumped me for a girl he hasn’t met yet and says he must do this for his family
Submitted July 06, 2022 at 10:28PM by Interesting-Ad-4971 https://ift.tt/t6Yx7QZ
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