Our relationship fell apart because I couldn’t keep on top of our home, but now he’s moved out he can help, how do I approach this?
I (27f) was with my bf 24m for 5 years and living together for 2, the crux of it is, is that he works full time and I have my own business that is part time (depending on how busy I am).
Partner wanted me to do all household chores and meals as I worked less and am home more. I have ADHD so managing an entire house on my own was incredibly difficult and I have struggled for years. I have asked him for help numerous times, just small contributions so I wasn’t so overwhelmed doing 3 people worth of tasks. I also have a 7 year old daughter who I do everything for.
He refused to help, while I understand his points of Im home more, I do have my business to run, schools runs to do and because I work the entire weekend most weeks I do want at least a few hours to have my own time.
Now he’s moved back into his parents and is putting all his own clothes away like I begged him to do here.
He says he won’t come back till I can prove I can be independent and manage a home. How do I even approach this?
Edit - my business is based at home, the stuff will be going in the shed when it’s built in the next month. My home is 2 bed so it can get a bit overwhelming when it’s 3 of us here.
TLDR - BF gets mad I won’t do everyone’s chores and cooking, so moves out but now does do chores
Submitted July 10, 2022 at 11:25PM by Rebecca1307 https://ift.tt/hRWFi6B
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