How to follow up unsuccessful break up conversation?

Edit: Thanks everyone who responded. I'll think about this a bit more, but I am relieved that wanting to just re-state the break up over text isn't a shitty thing to do. I'm deleting the details of the situation so that he'll be less likely to find this post and get upset (he's on reddit too).

TLDR: I tried breaking up with my boyfriend but was subjected to a 10 hour conversation about why he is upset about our relationship and then I was convinced to find us couples counselling. How do I follow up that conversation (clarifying that I do indeed want to break up) in a way that isn't as emotionally exhausting and unproductive as the previous attempt?

Submitted July 22, 2022 at 03:31AM by Ok_Active_9076 https://ift.tt/a1zSgq2