I started working at this place when I was 15 and met my coworker will, who was 21 at the time. He would flirt with me all the time, tell me I was his favorite coworker, and asked me out multiple times to which I declined every time. He also would message me outside of work every single day.
I had a crush on him while we worked together because of how nice he was to me, but I never said yes to his advances because I knew my parents wouldn’t allow it.
I stopped talking to him when I was 17 because we stopped working together and I didn’t want to talk to him anymore. However, during that time that we didn’t see each other, he continued messaging me on social media even though he had a girlfriend. It escalated to him calling me every night when I turned 18 and asking a bunch of sexual questions and asking that if he were single, would I date him.
I did end up going on a few dates with him (stupid I know) a few months later, and he pressured me into sleeping with him and other sexual things even though I was very uncomfortable. I stopped seeing him shortly after that, as I felt that he didn’t respect me and was kind of a jerk to me. However, he’s continued contacting me on social media and even created a fake account to contact me.
People have told me that I was groomed by him because even though he’s obviously a jerk, I liked him and still do a little. I just need help making sense of what to do next and how I should view this situation. Thank you for reading all this
TLDR: my coworker started hitting on me when he was 21 and I was 15 and we started dating when I turned 18. Unsure if I was groomed or not
Submitted January 05, 2021 at 07:19PM by chickfilasoap https://ift.tt/2MDqcCG
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