Me and my wife have been in a relationship for 10 years. We married about 6 months ago. Over the last 8 months our intimacy has faded, at first I attributed it to planning a wedding during the pandemic but since our marriage things have only gotten worse. When I try to initiate she often pulls away, she builds a wall of pillows between us when we sleep saying Im a hot sleeper. Everything I say or do seems to be wrong (down to the way I chew) and makes her mad. I love her with my entire being but I don't know what to do. She recently told me that she misses the excitement that comes with a new relationship and that she's only ever been with me intimately and I told her just to communicate and I could be open to adding to our bedroom if it meant making her happy. She then said she felt bad she was even talking about it with me but that she doesn't find me physically attractive or attractive personality wise. I dont get it, I'm of husky build but nothing that limits me (I have a physically demanding job) and most people seem to think I'm an okay guy. How do I get my wife back?
Tl;DR : My wife is no longer being intimate with me and I don't know what I can do
Submitted January 03, 2021 at 10:54PM by BrewwwMaster https://ift.tt/391ksdc
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