I (24F) am someone who believes pretty strongly in love languages. My top on the list is quality time. I love spending time and having conversations w my bf. On the contrary, my boyfriend (27M) doesnt believe in the concept of love language and thinks that love should be given in a lot of different forms. His top of the list is definitely NOT quality time.
For the last few months, we have been working on spending more time together. More time means going to dinner and then driving me back home. He used to ask if his friends can tag along - to which I used to say yes. Lately Ive been saying no, because I wanted to spend time with just the two of us.
Yesterday he said that he feels its a burden because I asked to see him 3x a week. To be fair, it was the holidays and he spent the whole day playing video games anyway. I dont see how spending a few hours would feel like a burden.
A part of me doesnt want to compromise on spending less time with him. I dont think 3x a week is asking for too much, given the free time he has. We spend about 2 hours seeing each other. He thinks its a burden because meeting me feels forced, like its an obligation to meet his girlfriend.
Please advice. I love him but this feels way more complicated than it should be.
(TLDR; bf feels like its a burden to see me)
Submitted January 03, 2021 at 09:39AM by the-confused-potato https://ift.tt/38WidIp
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