I(26F) found an open Snapchat account on my husband’s(27) phone filled with chats from other women. He denied it but I know what I saw.

Edited and resubmitted due to language**

To start my husband and I have been together for 5 years and honestly, most of the time, have a dream relationship. He’s my best friend and I absolutely adore him. We also have a 4 year old together. Last night after some fooling around I came back from the bathroom and he asked me to help him with something on his phone, which I did. I then started to close out all his apps because he keeps all of them open at once. That’s when I saw Snapchat was open. Which I know he doesn’t use. Or at least I thought he didn’t. I decided to open it back up and saw that the chats were all “sexy” user names with conversations as recent as two days ago. When he realized what I had looked at he grabbed the phone and then deleted the app. He literally tried to tell me I hallucinated it. I know what I saw. It took me over an hour to get him to admit that he was using it to look at pictures of other women. He said that he found this account on Reddit that multiple guys go into to interact with Snapchat “ladies”. He said he’s had access to it since BEFORE he met me. He said the only thing he has done is look at pictures and read other people’s conversations. Now this is where I don’t believe him because 1. Pretty sure that you can’t have multiple people signed into the same Snapchat account 2. The f****ing conversations and images disappear so he can’t prove to me that it wasn’t from him. I adore this man with my entire heart and I feel like I’ve been stripped of my trust for him. I left for a few hours to calm down last night and my best friend told me he was probably just embarrassed, but we are very honest with what we like, what we watch, what we do etc and I don’t see why his immediate reaction would be to hide this and lie to me. Or why it never came up in conversation before which I also find weird. Which makes me think something is going on. He’s now at work and I’m stuck mulling all this over and I’m not sure how to proceed next. I don’t want to leave him because I love him but he broke my trust and I’m still not sure he’s telling the full truth to me.

TL;DR found out husband had a Snapchat account to chat with other women that may or may not belong to him. Can’t tell if he is telling the truth but I want to believe him for the sake of our family.

Submitted January 09, 2021 at 04:03PM by mamabear16 https://ift.tt/2MMo7UV