I’ll (24F) cut the bs. My bf (26M) went to Mexico with a group of friends alone. I could not afford the trip due to university. I encouraged him to go have fun on this trip and suggested some spots I had visited before.
Up until the trip, everything seemed good. The same group of friends going to Mexico… I have met previously twice. They all spoke a different language (Russian) but I made some decent acquaintances…. But I also made some enemies.
To be quite frank, I have been against this one girl. She and her close clique have been quite cold since I showed up at the first party.
She has a crush on my man - from what I’ve witnessed (her leaning on him and kisses on the cheek at the bar to attempting to drag him away from me to dance) and what he’s told me (she has a huge crush on him and it’s created issues in past relationships) I’ve had my guard up. ——————————————————
Anyhow, tonight I received a Facetime. It was that same girl and her BFF calling me from my boyfriend’s phone…. Saying he was in jail with his friend.
I kept calm for 1min while internally flipping sht and then my BF appeared on the phone.
He told me it was a joke. But his friend was actually in jail without him.
I was very upset he did this.
I told him he made me feel hurt and disappointed in him after he promised me no drama and that she wouldn’t be involved in our lives. He then told me I was attacking his character. He said I should never challenge him like this and insult his character. I told him I was disappointed in him and I thought he would make better choices. He took that as disrespect.
Was I really doing that? Would you personally put up with this? Is this disrespect?
If so I may have a lot to learn, in which I will do so more than willingly.
Thank you in advance.
TLDR: BF went on vacation and involved unwelcome girl in our relationship. I feel it is disrespect and he won’t apologize. He now says I am disrespectful and won’t allow a woman to challenge his character. How do you feel?
Submitted January 09, 2022 at 02:16AM by ThrowawayRA19975 https://ift.tt/3304l0J
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