[UPDATE] My boyfriend[M30] is never intimate with me [F24] and we only had sex 2 times in 1 and a half year

My boyfriend finally admitted to me why he didn’t want to be intimate with me for such a long time. He told me that the reason he used to cheat on his ex girlfriends(he promises he never cheated on me) is because as soon as they entered the relationship he stopped being sexually attracted to them. He stopped being aroused when he was with them even though he loved them and wanted to continue the relationship. He only felt aroused with the girls he cheated on them with for one night. That hurt me a lot because he knew this the whole time and made me think it might be my fault.

That probably means he has Madonna-whore complex like someone in my previous post suggested. He didn’t know that existed and neither did I. However, after that talk he said that he wanted to have sex with me a lot and we came to the house and I got naked in front of him. He couldn’t get hard at all, I went to the bathroom and cried my eyes out because that was a horrible feeling.

He also started crying(I’ve never seen him like that) and told me that he feels bad because he made me so sad about everything. I broke up with him because that was a huge problem for me, also because we fight a lot and are in a LDR. I suggested he goes to therapy to fix that problem but he said he wouldn’t. He says he will never be with anyone anymore which I don’t believe.

I’m not mad at him because I can’t hold a grudge against him when I love him. I just don’t want to see him again which I think is natural after everything.

TL;DR My boyfriend(now ex) basically told me he has Madonna-whore complex and that’s why he didn’t want to be intimate with me.

My boyfriend[M30] is never intimate with me [F24] and we only had sex 2 times in 1 and a half year

Submitted May 25, 2021 at 02:15PM by confuiscar https://ift.tt/3vm8PYh