So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and we live together. Not going to bore the details but we have a healthy happy relationship and I’m the one that came from a previous toxic relationship. I heard him on a work call mention to this new girl at work that they should grab drinks and chat. He’s a pretty friendly guy and girls at work are usually drawn to him. I really don’t find it appropriate to grab drinks with an opposite of the sex co worker one on one. Am I crazy? Sure in a group setting but to actively meet up just two people I find very weird. I know he wouldn’t go if I told him I felt uncomfortable with it, but am I just being crazy and insecure? I know I would never just grab drinks with a new male co worker alone out of respect. My boyfriend has never done anything to make me not trust him, but I am a little damaged from previous relationships.
Edit: just adding the fact that I heard him mention that he lives with his girlfriend on the call so I know he has good intentions.
TL;DR: boyfriend wants to get drinks with new female co worker one on one. Am I crazy for not wanting him to do this ?
Submitted May 26, 2021 at 08:01PM by nycperson54321 https://ift.tt/3fSmGzh
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