My (M27) partner (F23) is being manipulated by her friends into thinking I am controlling. What do I do?
Hello people of Reddit.
Me and my partner have been in an incredible relationship for over a year and a half, full of love, care and fun. I am 27 and she is 23 and we get along like a house on fire. We have had a few little arguments in the past, in which she has been afraid of getting hurt and chose to distance herself for the fear of it, but we always managed to work things out.
She was recently invited to a house party with 4 male colleagues from work (just the 4 of them and her), she is friendly with them but not know them too long, I didn't feel comfortable with the idea and expressed it to her, specially thinking about her safety, knowing how some men are when they are drunk. She proceeded to call me controlling, knowing full well I have never had an issue with her going out with friends or talking to male friends and decided to end the relationship.
It was very unexpected and out of the blue as we were both so in love with each other and were looking forward to our future together. I fear her newfound friends have influenced her and given her the wrong idea about me even though she should know me better. She won't even give me a chance at talking it out, saying there is nothing to talk about.
I have tried everything I can to try and talk to her but am out of options now, which is why I have decided to ask for mature answers or suggestions. I truly love her and don't want to give up but am running out of fight.
**TL;DR; : How do I get through to my partner that her friends are manipulating her into leaving me?
Thank you in advance for any help.
Submitted May 26, 2021 at 06:04AM by Everyman993 https://ift.tt/2SzIMyj
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