I suffer every month, my mood is low , I am irritable and sad. We are a strong couple but this issue has come up many times in our 4 year relationship. I am on a host of.medication for various things including antidepressants. We were having an argument about something else and this came up again and I feel it is so unfair. I try to manage my emotions when I am both pre menstrual and while my.period is happening. I recognise annoyances I might feel can be attributed to my period and keep my mouth shut knowing they will pass when my hormones stabilize. My boyfriend however, says he feels like he is 'living with an alcoholic' who is unpredictable and angry "at least half the month" and he hates living with me when I am menstruating. I have tried to explain many MANY times that some aspects of this time are beyond my control, but that I try my best. I have about 20 more years of menstruating left and I don't want to be made feel guilty for something for which I cannot control every aspect. Men, how do you feel about this reaction from my bf, am I in the wrong? Please help!
Tldr: boyfriend hates me when I am pre menstrual and during my period likening me to an erratic angry alcoholic who is unbearable to live with. I am trying my best but can this go on? I have approx 20 more years of menstruation left...
Submitted January 08, 2021 at 07:54AM by Das_user https://ift.tt/35ngCKF
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