And I should have known...
He ended up breaking up with her for me when we first started talking. He assured me that their relationship was over and he wanted to be with me. However, The first 6 months of our relationship I couldn’t help feel that he was emotionally distant and wishy washy. About a year into our relationship she DM’d me on Instagram and sent me a bunch of screenshots of him telling her that he still loved her and missed her and wanted to see her.
We broke up over that.
But then 6 months later we started talking again and he apologized for everything and swore that she wouldn’t interfere again and that he was fully committed to me. I believed him and really felt he was being true and that I could trust him again. After all I mean, I was heartbroken and really loved him. For so long things felt good again and I felt like I could put the past behind us. It felt like we were really happy and we had a good thing going for us.
And then recently he’s been distant again and he gets super drunk and confesses to me that he resents me for leaving his ex. He admitted he’s never been able to move past her and that he believes she’s the one for him.
He told me he wants to make it work with her and that he’s so sorry for bringing me into this. I just feel so used. I feel like a 2.5 year rebound... what the hell.
I’m kinda lost for words right now, but in all honesty the red flags were there and I should have known.
Not really looking for advice here just needed to vent. I know it’s over and I’m not going to beg him to stay. All the love I thought we shared, all the times he said he loved me, all the vacations and memories made. Were they really just all lies??! Has anyone been through anything similar? I’d really just like to know that I’m not alone because this is just so surreal to me right now.
TLDR: boyfriend just admitted to me that he’s never fully gotten over his ex and wants to be with her. He’s now my ex boyfriend and I feel so used.
Submitted January 06, 2021 at 06:06PM by mallhotdog_3000 https://ift.tt/396lCEB
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