Dated Brad in 2016 for 6 months, during this time I wasn’t aware he was married and it was a low point of my life.
He didn’t wear protection despite insisting he would and it led to my daughter being born, when he was made aware of the pregnancy he told me that he was married and didn’t want me or the baby.
(Wasn’t quite as quick or clean cut as that)
He pretty happily signed away all rights as soon as he could and I’ve been no contact since, my daughter has a father figure in her life.
Throughout the pregnancy Brads wife pretty much made my life a hell and I get it but at the end of the day I wasn’t even aware he was married?
She’d show up at my house, make posts on the internet, call and text me as well as family and friend. It even got to the stage where she spread around intimate texts that I didn’t even know Brad would keep.
When my daughter was born she apologised and it ended, I didn’t want to pursue the police because I felt guilty and ashamed at that time I thought it was completely on me, I’m aware now that it isn’t.
My daughter turns 3 in 2 months and I’m not sure if her upcoming (?) birthday is what sparked Brads wife getting involved or whatever.
To sum up the contact I’ve had with her;
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insists that my daughter “has the right” to meet her siblings, aunts & grandparents
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insists that she should know Brad (Brad signed over his parental rights)
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claims she’s my daughters “other mummy”
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has been posting photos of my daughter and saying they’re her daughter, I don’t know how she got photos but I’ve had to delete my Facebook.
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has made posts saying I’m withholding her baby.
So far it hasn’t gotten any further than social media/texting.
I just don’t know what to do because I’d be over the moon if my daughter knew her siblings and right now that offer is there, do I arrange something where she meets them?
I’m not sure if I should even attempt this.
TLDR; ex’s wife is insistent on meeting daughter, I’d like for my daughter to meet her siblings and I’m not sure how to make that possible or even if I should.
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Submitted January 08, 2021 at 10:37AM by ThrowRa5019 https://ift.tt/3nooj9H
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