My boyfriend has a very high sex drive, whereas I on the other hand, do not. I’ve always been bad at saying no to people because I don’t want to let down/disappoint anyone, so I always go along with it when my boyfriend initiates, even if I don’t want to.
Sometimes he’ll notice that I’m being hesitant but he’ll move past it and just have sex with me. I don’t blame him at all for my difficulties in saying no, because that’s my own problem.
A few nights ago, my boyfriend initiated but I was really tired and just wanted to relax. I told him that I was too tired and maybe another time, but he kept asking me and making me feel really bad so I eventually gave in.
During the sex, I started experiencing a lot of pain because I wasn’t in the mood at all and he was being really rough. I was very obviously in pain and I asked him to stop but he didn’t. When he finished, he asked me why I was upset and I told him that I asked him to stop and he just said “oh I didn’t notice.”
I just feel really weird about the whole situation and I kind of feel violated even though he technically didn’t do anything wrong. What should I do?
Tldr: me and my boyfriend’s sex drives are very different and it causes a lot of problems. A few nights ago, he didn’t stop when I asked him to during sex and I feel bad about it even though he didn’t do anything wrong
Submitted January 01, 2021 at 08:32PM by ThrowRAjshxksndk https://ift.tt/384XWRr
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