dad has been trying to get me to break up / cheat on my girlfriend, and had my grandpa try to convince me also

Me (M18) and my girlfriend (F19) have been dating for about a year and a half. my dad is divorced (he cheated on my mom) and he continues to cheat on his girlfriend's. he has been trying to convince me to break up or cheat on my girlfriend so I can "enjoy the college experience."

I've told him multiple times that I think I'm going to marry this girl, and to quit saying things like that. it won't stop, the other day my grandpa called me just to tell me to break up with my girlfriend so I could enjoy college. I'm sure that my dad put him up to it. what do I do??

tl;dr dad wants me to cheat/break up with my GF to enjoy college and he won't stop even if I tell him too

edit: forgot to tell you guys that he flirts with my girlfriend also.

Submitted January 07, 2021 at 02:10PM by throwaway4obviousres https://ift.tt/394Dr6I