I'm very upset at the moment. My ex lives with my mom and I. Today, he went to a "small gathering" at his brothers. Turns out it was a very large party with 20+ people all without masks inside their house. He was there for like 5 hours.
I am upset because he understands and knows the boundaries my family has set with masks. My mom is a caregiver for elderly and immunocompromised people and I am currently working from home because I am vulnerable. We have made masks a requirement and we haven't even visited my own grandparents in well over 6 months. His own mother is dying and she was at the party.
My mom is very upset. It not only puts us at risk, but it's an absolute death sentence for her clients. I am not sure what to do as discussion with him is like a brick wall. He says "he can get the virus anywhere" which is true but I don't like pushing luck. If they weren't going to wear masks, he could have made a very brief visit or went before everyone got there or another day idk. There are safer ways to visit your family and especially immunocompromised family than a 20+ person party.
I feel disrespected and angry
Tldr. Ex went to large party without masks when we are trying very hard to stay healthy.
Submitted October 25, 2020 at 02:37AM by berryloved https://ift.tt/2HzmpEc
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