This guy (23m that's part of an online group out of the blue admitted he has strong feelings for me. I (25f)was shocked and confused but it seems like he really means it.
I told him I do not know him enough and could we get to know each other first as he's known me for about a month.
Relationships and dating terrify me, I want to find love but honestly I had a panic attack when he told me. I've talked to him more and more and I'm realising I'm liking him back but I'm still so scared.
His feelings seem pretty strong, he says I'm gorgeous, he compliments by telling me how courageous and clever I am, how I should be so proud of myself and he's proud of me.
This is all, I just don't believe he's talking about me. That he's made this fantasy version of me in his head. If we did ever get together he discovers I'm not all those things... How angry is he going to be?
With my ex, I feel like a bait and switched him, he fell in love with this amazing girl and I just wasn't her. I was never good enough anymore, I never made him happy, he'd get angry and violent and I was just desperate to be the person he wanted but I was so defeated, I hit a severe depression.
I've tried to be upfront about everything with this guy, how I have severe anxiety, I have depression episodes. I'm not this person he thinks I am. I try so so hard to be a good person, I try to be kind and courageous, optimistic but it doesn't feel like me...
I'm struggling to handle how kind he is to me and how quickly he's so kind, he doesn't know me. I'm very active in the group because I run it but I don't know.
Thank you for reading in advance
tldr: guy I've known for a month opens up and tells me he has a massive crush on me. I don't think he even knows me and is in for a world of hurt when he realises I'm not this gorgeous, courageous woman
Submitted October 26, 2020 at 12:10PM by Chonkygrill https://ift.tt/3jtUemZ
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