ThroRA because my partner is on reddit a lot. My [30s f] partner [30s m] and I have been together for 5 years. I found an alphabetical catalogue of sexy pictures of women we know irl. Coworkers, his exes and our mutual friends. This is a classic case of "if you're looking for something, be careful, because you just might find it". I was looking on his computer because I caught him talking to an ex (including after bar video chats that lasted hours and lots of gushy talk i.e. I miss you, I love you). I was expecting to find something, but not THIS. This catalog is massive, includes screenshots and saved pictures from women's multiple social media accounts. A lot of them are much younger than us. He also had nudes of his many exes. I don't know how to proceed, this is the best relationship I've ever had and we love each other deeply. We both thoroughly enjoy porn and are open with our sexuality. At first I tried to look at this as a "kink" or just something "guys just do", but I just can't shake the slimy and predatory feeling of the whole thing. I lied and told him I needed to go home to my dad's 2 hours away to help him do some stuff around the house for a few days, but I'm staying at a friends the next town over until I can sort this out in my head. Do I move past this for the sake of the relationship? He's not a cheater, and he's an amazing boyfriend besides this. I just can't help but feel lost and betrayed. We just bought a house and have 3 dogs together. Should I end this relationship because of his collection?
TL/DR: Found my boyfriends spank bank of real women we know, should I break up with him?
Submitted October 29, 2020 at 02:54PM by shinimon666 https://ift.tt/35NgBPn
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