As the title says, this is what I’m dealing with. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I met him through my sisters boyfriend, as they’ve been friends for many years now. He currently lives with both his parents.
He’s been great to me. He has a great career and has his life together. I do too. We planned to move in together around our one year anniversary this December and have talked about marriage, buying a home together, and having kids in the next 3 years.
The other day at work my coworker was talking about checking the Megan’s Law website for her neighborhood so I decided to check it for my neighborhood and then I thought hey, I should check near where my boyfriend lives too.
I was shocked to find his dad listed. The offense was “lewd and lascivious acts with a minor under 14” and he was convicted two years before my boyfriend was even born. I have no idea if my boyfriend knows, but he thinks very highly of his dad, works with him, and considers him a best friend.
I have no idea what to do. We’ve talked about having kids together but obviously we can’t if his dad is a sex offender. I’m crushed and have no idea if I should bring this up with him and how. Any ideas?
Tl;Dr Found boyfriends dad on sex offender registry and have no idea if boyfriend knows but our relationship is serious. What should I do?
Submitted October 01, 2020 at 10:59AM by sunmoonstars_217 https://ift.tt/33iyMfS
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