A couple months ago I snooped through my girls phone one might while she was sleeping. She had been acting differently with her phone weeks leading up to this and I just had this weird gut feeling. Sure enough, she had been arranging to hangout with a dude behind my back who -based on his responses, had one intention with her if you know what I mean. She was reluctant however eventually went along with it and agreed to hangout with him. The messages were not explicit per se but they were deff heading that way and they were not appropriate for our relationship. I woke her up, confronted her about it, she apologized, cried blah blah blah. I told her to be transparent with her phone as I always have been and don’t ever jeopardize our relationship again. She agreed.
Fast forward to today, she hasn’t been weird with her phone anymore but she has a coworker who she’s known for years and they’re supposedly “best friends”. He’s a male, early 30’s, real weird dude in my opinion. Lives within his parents, kinda goofy and awkward etc. I.E, I don’t find him a threat to me in any way so Ive never said anything about the way they communicate. Texting periodically about work or even saying “I love you” because it feels friendly. It really does.
However, today, when she was in the bathroom, I (not proudly) decided to quickly scan through her texts. There was a text from him saying “you owe me a butt pic lol” and that was it. She didn’t reply. I checked her snap to see if maybe she snapped him recently and didn’t see anything confirming that. But my question is, what do I do?
This really pisses me off, he’s disrespectful to even ask that. Luckily she didn’t respond but I would like my girlfriend of almost 2 years to cut that off quickly when it happens. Regardless of how good of friends they are. He’s met me before and couldn’t even look me in the eye. Honestly if I were to see him right about now it wouldn’t be good. He knows me and her are in a committed relationship so he’s basically saying “F him” by saying that.
How should I approach this? I hate snooping because I feel like a creep.
TL;DR! My girlfriend is being sketchy with her phone and her friendship with her coworker is getting on my nerves.
Submitted September 21, 2020 at 04:35PM by Obvious_Aerie5458 https://ift.tt/3iRfjIJ
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