Every single time I hit around the 6 month mark in a relationship I lose interest in the girl I’m dating. And these girls have been wonderful. Not a thing in the world wrong with them. Successful, beautiful, good hearts, everything great. We won’t really argue, no cheating or lying. Nothing bad. It’s just I always lose interest. No drive to want to be around them. Delaying responding to their texts or calls. Not wanting to sit and listen how their day is. And I know, I KNOW, that’s not cool. And I truly hate when I start feeling this way, bc everything in me wants to try and make things work. But my heart just drops out of the relationship. And I just start finding stupid little excuses of why it won’t work and eventually break it off.
I am currently in a relationship of a little over a year. But have started having the feelings again of losing interest a few months ago. But I wanted to try and stick with it and see if it’s just a phase I will get out of, but here I am still having these shitty feelings about things and losing my drive to want to grow the relationship. And I’ll tell you one thing, this girl(23) is absolutely amazing. Better than any one I have had before. Will literally do anything in the world for me. She’s the sweetest thing and smart and beautiful. She has all the perks in the world. But here I am just looking for excuses for it to not work. And just not caring.
I honestly have no idea what to do...i know I’m the common issue in these relationships. The girls don’t do anything to deserve these feelings. But what am I supposed to do? Am I just not finding the right one? Or am I being to complicated? I know no relationship can be all romance and butterflies. That’s impossible. But it just seems that once I lose the drive, it’s completely gone, and I can’t get even an ounce of it back.
I want to get married and have a family. I do. I just can’t figure out why I keep getting these negative feelings. If you have any advice or suggestions please let me know. I hate just starting over time and time again. Note I usually have a period of 6-7 months in between relationships. Should I wait longer? Just not sure
TL;DR I keep losing interest in every relationship I get into once we start dating for around 6 months.
Submitted September 29, 2020 at 11:22AM by Poopoomagooo https://ift.tt/3cGeuQu
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