My (26M) girlfriend (24F) who wants to be a nudist refuses to put clothes on when guests come over. What do I do?

I know the title of this has to sound super weird. But it’s true. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months now. She’s pretty free spirited and a little crazy at times. But that’s one of the reasons why I love her. She’s what many people would call a hippie. One thing that she loves doing is being nude as much as possible. She’s trying to transition into being a full time nudist and wants to move to a nudist community in the future. She claims that it’s a lifestyle choice that makes her happy. She says that it makes her feel free and that it’s just way more comfortable. Almost all day she is nude. It has nothing to do with being sexual. We do not live in a nudist community though and we don’t have nudist friends. We both have friends that we like to invite over a good bit. I think she’s told some of her friends about it, and they are supportive of it. When my friends come over she still does not put clothes on. One of my friends seemed to be making flirty comments towards her. She seemed to like it from what I can tell and didn’t say anything to them. I thought it was super weird.

Another time a different friend of mine came over and she still didn’t put on clothes. They seemed very weirded out. She did explain why she wasn’t wearing any. He was quite and it was so awkward the whole time. Afterwards he texted me and asked what was going on. I tried to explain that she does this with everyone now. He said he didn’t feel comfortable coming over until she puts clothes on. After that I decided I definitely needed to talk to her about it. I explained how I feel that it’s weird for her to be nude around others without their consent, even though there’s nothing sexual about it and that some people just aren’t comfortable with that. I told her what my friend said as well. She got really mad and said that they have no right to say that and that I should be on her side. She claimed that there is nothing wrong with being nude around others and that I have no right telling her what to do. I told her that I don’t mind her being nude around me or her friends that support her.

Since our argument she has been trying to prove a point by wearing many layers of clothing and never undressing around me. I hate to have caused this, although I don’t feel like I was in the wrong. I don’t mind her being a nudist if the guests are consenting. I in fact would possibly like to live in a nudist community with her in the future. But I just don’t think it’s right to do in front of others who aren’t consenting. What should I do? I love her and I don’t want this to cause to many problems, but I feel like something needs to be done.

TL;DR- my girlfriend won’t put on clothes around guests. It has caused a big fight between us.

Submitted September 23, 2020 at 01:09PM by throweamotaboka https://ift.tt/33SICEl